PRINCIPLES FOR PERSONAL GROWTH, CHANGE, AND TRUE SUCCESS IN OUR LIFE AND SERVICE TO OTHERS

 

How to become all we can be and live at peace in our world.

 
Principle 8 - Successful living requires that we have the courage and faith to take action in the presence of our fears.
 
                Remember fear kills everything.  Yes, it kills everything.  It kills hopes, aspirations, and dreams.  It kills relationships, confidence, and creativity.  It can kill our joy and rob us of our happiness.  It can even kill our health and take our life.  “Scared to death” is not just a figure of speech; it can become a reality. 
 
          Think about what you might be able to achieve if you were not afraid.  What keeps us from so many of the adventures that could change our lives?  It’s fear -- fear of failure, rejection, abandonment, loss, and many others.  There are many things that can make us fearful, but true success and peace of mind comes down to having the courage to take action in the face of our fears.  When we do, we will eventually come to the place where even though we may not be fearless, we are “fearing less.”  You see, it all comes down to courage. 
 
          But how do we do that?  Courage grows when we know that we are in a safe place.  Our courage grows when we know we are heard, loved, accepted, and not alone.  Our courage and confidence grows as we take risks, overcome obstacles and achieve our goals.  Our courage increases when we live by faith; the faith that there is a deep benevolence at the core of the universe.  Courage makes us unstoppable when we know that even though our bodies may be pierced and broken, that our souls can remain untouched. 
 
          The thinker-educator, Parker Palmer, reminds us that we will always have fears, but that we do not have to become our fears.  Thousands of years ago, the poet of the ancient Psalms said, ”Even though I go through the deepest darkness, I will fear no evil… the Lord God is strength of my life, of whom shall I be afraid.”
 
          So as we seek growth, positive change, and true success, we need to remember that successful living requires that we have the courage and faith to take action in the presence of our fears.

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